By Delia Messier (Canada)
My childhood friend and I had a long and very close relationship. Though we were no longer in the same faith and had agreed to disagree, we could still share and support one another.
My friend was a prominent person in her church. She was one of only two or three people who could read Scripture at Sunday Mass. She taught catechism to new converts. She went to seminars with the nuns and had an ongoing rapport with their priest.
We encouraged and supported each other in difficult times. Occasionally, my friend expressed that she lacked discernment and would be looking for understanding. Knowing God’s Truth, I was often able to help her feel more confident. One day, my friend told me that her church was open to people of other religions to use their church facilities; that we were living in an enlightened time.
Some time later, she announced that her daughter had become a Buddhist nun. I asked her how she felt about her little Catholic daughter becoming a Buddhist nun, and she answered: “There is more than one way to God.”
She was a little taken aback when I replied to her: “There is only one way to eternal life, and that is through Jesus Christ.”
Her daughter, not long after, left the Buddhist faith, though she did not return to Catholicism.
A few years later, my dear friend died, and her daughter spoke at a very packed church funeral service with 200 to 300 in attendance. At the podium, she said one thing that took me by surprise: “There is only one way to eternal life, that is through Jesus Christ.”
My friend and I had a special connection. On her deathbed, I was able to tell her that I would see her in the resurrection and encouraged her to be brave. That day, I was the only person to whom she could respond.
Looking back, I could see how God’s Spirit had been working quietly through our friendship all along.
