A long time ago, when I was in paid employment, I read an article by an instructor in leadership in one of my engineering magazines. She remembered back in her college days that the dean, over a period of several months, had invited all the students to dine with him and his wife. I will quote her words. “He had been doing this for over ten years. After my dinner, I wrote a thank you note. To my great surprise and trepidation, they asked to see me. They wanted to thank me for being the only student ever to thank them for their hospitality.”
This was one in maybe hundreds. In the days of the New Testament, when Jesus Christ healed ten lepers, only one turned back to thank God and show appreciation. In this case, it was one in ten. And that one was a foreigner (compare Luke 17:15-18).
Is thankfulness just a matter of politeness, being tactful, just a nice social custom?
I would like us to see what God says about thankfulness. How important it is to Him. Paul states this in 2 Timothy 3:1-4, “But know this that in the last days perilous times will come: For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasures rather than lovers of God…” Being unthankful is listed among many other serious shortcomings like blasphemers and slanderers.
This shows that God considers being unthankful as a serious matter. Why is this? He knows that our human nature is selfish, trying to get for oneself. With this nature, it is hard to be thankful.
To be thankful, we must stop, look at, and appreciate what we have. But instead of appreciation, human nature generally lusts for more and more. A mind filled with this desire to get more is virtually incapable of gratitude.
God states this clearly in Romans 1:21-22. “… because, although they knew God, they did not glorify Him as God, nor were thankful, but became futile in their thoughts, and their foolish hearts were darkened. Professing to be wise, they became fools…” It takes humility to be thankful. Human nature, with its greed, selfishness and vanity cannot humble itself in thanksgiving to God.
In Psalm 100:4, we read: “Enter into His gates with thanksgiving, And into His courts with praise. Be thankful to Him, and bless His name.” In some of the hymns we sing, based on the Psalms, they begin with “O Give Thanks.” Why?
God wants to develop holy, righteous, perfect character in those who have voluntarily yielded their lives to Him. God knows human nature. He knows it is filled with, as Mr. Armstrong used to say frequently, vanity, selfishness, lust and greed. God knows that of itself, human nature is not thankful.
Therefore, to help us overcome this selfish nature, God has commanded that we be thankful. Thankfulness gets our minds off self. It acknowledges God’s hand in our lives. We admit we’ve had help. We did not do it all ourselves.
It can be very difficult for people to say thank you. But God tells us, in 1 Thessalonians 5:18: “… in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”
So this is the formula for happiness. God expects us to give thanks in everything. In other words, God expects us to find something good in every situation. God wants us to focus on our blessings, not dwell on our problems. In fact, there is a command in Ephesians 5:20, “… giving thanks always for all things to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.”
There are many things to be thankful for, and I will not mention them here, but being human, we like to think normally that we are sufficient unto ourselves, that we have worked hard to get all we have. Yet when we give God thanks, or even thank other people, we are acknowledging that God and others have helped us and provided for us and that we are not self-sufficient. We are not the big I.
King David understood the need for thanksgiving. He even set up certain of the Levites to thank and praise the Eternal God of Israel. Every morning and every evening also, these Levites were to thank and praise the Eternal. David knew how easy it is to become ungrateful, and this was one of the greatest sins a nation could fall into, so for an example, these Levites formally offered thanks to God twice a day (compare 1 Chronicles 23:30).
In a number of places God says He is not really pleased with the sacrifices the people offered in the Old Testament and the way they were offered, but in the book of Psalms, thanksgiving is called an offering and a sacrifice. God is very pleased with this offering (compare Psalms 116:17).
God knows it goes against the grain of human nature to say thank you. But to say it sincerely shows a person to be humble, meek and thoughtful. Every day God wants us to give thanks for the many blessings we have in life. He also wants us to thank others.
It is recorded that Daniel was a man who gave thanks. He thanked God for giving him wisdom and revealing the secrets of the king in prophecies. He was so thankful, that even when a decree was issued that no one should make petition to any God or man other than the king for thirty days, and if he did, he was to be put to death, Daniel knelt three times a day and gave thanks (compare Daniel 6:10). He gave thanks even under a death sentence. He was not so concerned about himself that he forgot about God’s goodness. We note later in the book of Daniel that the angel Gabriel told him that he was greatly beloved. This was because of his total character, including his thankfulness.
Would I be able to give thanks under such circumstances? Would you? And yet, God says to give thanks always in all things; so yes, we should be growing in order to be able to do this.
So is being thankful just a social custom, a matter of being nice to people? No. From what we have just read, it is obvious that God wants us to give thanks always because it pleases Him.